Comments on: The Gift of Your Presence http://www.focusedbusinessaction.com/2008/11/the-best-gift-you-can-give-is-your-presence/ Productivity Tips for Solo Business Owners to Get More Stuff Done Fri, 09 Jul 2010 13:24:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: The Nimble Assistant http://www.focusedbusinessaction.com/2008/11/the-best-gift-you-can-give-is-your-presence/comment-page-1/#comment-22 The Nimble Assistant Mon, 17 Nov 2008 17:38:00 +0000 http://scottlewis.wordpress.com/2007/09/23/the-best-gift-you-can-give-is-your-presence/#comment-22 Hi Scott; great post! Isn't it interesting that once we decide to make conscious choices about the words we use and what we are feeling that we notice how others don't? You knew what you wanted (and knew if you weren't getting it, you could call someone else). What an evolution of emotional intelligence! You can easily tell when a person is reacting based on their own judgement, not by tuning into your needs. Having not read the book, I'm probably preaching to the choir here and I apologize. The first thing anyone should ask is: "So where does that put you? What's the next step? or How can I help you with this?" and then respond. Be well! Nimbly, Jennifer Hi Scott; great post! Isn’t it interesting that once we decide to make conscious choices about the words we use and what we are feeling that we notice how others don’t?

You knew what you wanted (and knew if you weren’t getting it, you could call someone else). What an evolution of emotional intelligence!

You can easily tell when a person is reacting based on their own judgement, not by tuning into your needs. Having not read the book, I’m probably preaching to the choir here and I apologize.

The first thing anyone should ask is: “So where does that put you? What’s the next step? or How can I help you with this?” and then respond.

Be well!

Nimbly,
Jennifer

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